Are you wiping correctly? The anal sex ed you never got, from an expert!
Interview with Dr. Evan Goldstein
Anal health and pleasure
16.07.24
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For this episode of the podcast, Tim spoke with leading anal health expert in the U.S., Dr Evan Goldstein. Dr Goldstein is the founder and CEO of Bespoke Surgical, a first of its kind health practice specialising in gay men’s sexual health and wellness, and the author of, Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In-Between.
We cover:
The anatomy of the anus, and how this relates to pooping and anal sex
Tips for anal hygiene
Why you shouldn’t be using wet wipes instead of toilet paper
How to get started with anal play
Myths around the cleanliness and looseness of the anus
The lowdown on douching
How anal botox works
Why open communication, education and access to proper care is essential for anyone wanting to engage in anal play
Timestamps:
00:00 – Podcast summary
00:38 - Intro
02:10 – How stigma limits people’s ability to experience pleasure
05:38 – Understanding the anatomy of your ass
07:20 – Quick tips for anal health
08:21 – Why you shouldn't be using wet wipes instead of toilet paper
10:21 – Why you should shower before bed
11:22 – How Dr. Goldstein started working in this space
16:20 – A note from Sex in Space
16:35 – Things you should know about anal sex
19:43 – You should be able to feel sexy anally
23:04 – Why is there so much stigma around anal sex?
25:51 – How you can get started with anal play
30:41 – Understanding which type of bottom you are
32:43 – Anal sex is for anyone
38:43 – Douching, pooping + anal
44:24 – How anal botox works
48:04 – Why it matters that people can access care for anal health
52:15 – Why education matters so much
55:15 – Understanding the prostate and the A-zone to enhance pleasure
56:36 – Conclusion
Related links:
Find Dr Goldstein here: https://drevangoldstein.com/
Check out Butt Seriously: https://a.co/d/cRLA0vF